Dating advice has been around for a long time. Beatrice Fairfax, one of the first modern advice columnists,  began guiding people seeking love in 1898  in her newspaper column, Letters from the Lovelorn.

Today, dating methodologies like Burned Haystack and The Dating Funnel have exploded across social media…

Lately, I’ve been thinking about this quote from the famous leadership coach Marshall Goldsmith:

“People don’t stumble on success, they choose it.”

For most clients, choosing success, whether academic or in their careers, feels achievable. You’ve likely chosen success by working hard, building...

If you’ve been on social media recently, you’ve probably heard about dating methodologies like the Burned Haystack Method, Female Dating Strategy, and The Dating Funnel. Rooted in relationship psychology, social dynamics, and self-help approaches, dating methodologies promise to simplify the process...

It can be exciting when you finally start to date someone you like and find attractive. You might be tempted to take down your dating profile and focus on getting to know your new match. But before you invest fully, being intentional and asking the right questions can help determine whether a relati...

If you've tried executive coaching and have seen how effective it can be for your career, you may wonder if dating coaches can help you achieve similar results with romance.

Dating coaches offer tailored strategies that align with your professional lifestyle to ensure your efforts in the dating are...

A common question clients ask when considering dating coaching is, "How is coaching different from therapy? This question is especially important when deciding which approach to pursue for dating. In this post, I want to share the main differences between coaching and therapy so that you can decide ...

When love came for me, it knocked in French. My husband is French, and before meeting him, the only French words I knew were things to eat - croissant, café, and beignet. The idea of carrying on a real conversation in French felt impossible, just as dating can feel when you’re struggling to connect ...

I recently read an interesting blog post where the author described mutually beneficial introductions (MBIs) —considering if people you know would benefit from meeting each other and introducing them.  The author has been introducing people for over 10 years and has found that although the approach ...

Recently, a podcast host asked me, “What’s the one thing all single women who want to find their ideal partner need to know?”

I didn’t hesitate.

The most important truth—one that all women, single or married, must understand—is this:
You are already enough.

The first quarter of 2025 is over.  How are your New Year’s dating resolutions holding up?

• Have you been diligently working towards them?

• Do you review them regularly?

• Or, are they a constant reminder of what you haven’t accomplished?

As a successful professional woman looking for a long-term relationship, have you ever wondered what makes a dating app profile compelling?

• Is it painting a compelling picture of what sharing a life with you might look like?

• Is it appealing qualities and interests? Shared values?

Yes, modern dating has its challenges. Between ghosting breadcrumbing and the looming threat of AI dating, it’s no secret that dating can feel joyless and frustrating.

But, what if you could make dating a little less awful in 2025?  What if you could combine your New Year's resolution to find a lov...

While the holiday season can be a magical time filled with family, snow, and plenty of gingerbread, for the single woman, it can also be bittersweet. Amid the festive cheer, you might find yourself wishing for someone special to share it all with or wondering when you will get your moment under the ...

While the holidays can be a time of joy, connection, and celebration lurking behind all that holiday cheer can be loneliness and a sense of failure for the single woman.  Single women who arrive solo for the holidays with their families are often subjected to the well-meaning but annoying question, ...

Do you ever worry if you're doing something wrong in dating? You're not alone. I've worked with countless successful women who, despite their achievements, feel lost and frustrated when it comes to dating. They often wonder, "Is it me?"

But here's the secret: you're not broken, and you don't nee...

Ghosting, or abruptly ending communication with someone without an explanation, is a pervasive problem in modern dating. It can leave you feeling hurt, confused, and questioning your self-worth.  You may wonder if you did something wrong or feel frustrated (or furious!)  that you've wasted valuable ...

I am thrilled to share that I have been quoted in ApartmentGuide's recent article "18 Tips to Make Your Partner Comfortable When Visiting". It's an honor to contribute to such a well-regarded platform. If you're interested in learning helpful advice and tips for making your guy more comfortable a...

I saw Date or Soul Mate at a library book sale and the title caught my eye. The author, Dr. Neil Clark Warren is the founder of eHarmony.com and I hoped the book would offer a glimpse into eHarmony's early days and inner workings.

I like that Dr. Warren takes a pragmatic approach to dating. His goa...